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pbray ([personal profile] pbray) wrote2014-11-24 09:48 am

Tis the season

Feeling overwhelmed, as I often do as the Christmas season approaches. Lots of stuff going on, and like many women I am conditioned to feel bad whenever I have to say No. Even when saying No is key to maintaining mental health.

So here it is. No. With the following explanation: "You have a great crowdfunding project/I love that you're raising money for a charity/I share your outrage about X and want to help. But between bailing out a family member in a financial crisis and supporting charities in my community, I am completely tapped out."

[identity profile] mizkit.livejournal.com 2014-11-24 03:22 pm (UTC)(link)
+1

also I would hug you to bits if I was close enough. *hugs*

[identity profile] jmward14.livejournal.com 2014-11-25 04:12 am (UTC)(link)
I hear you. Best wishes to your family. I hope things ease up over the holidays--and that you get to enjoy them for yourself.

[identity profile] libwitch.livejournal.com 2014-11-26 11:03 pm (UTC)(link)
boundaries are important for sanity. seriously